Last time I checked humans didn't have 100 Hp, and last time I checked a 7.62x54 didn't have a damage value of 80. The balance of the weapons is incredibly important to every game. Arguing the difference between someone dying from 3 bullets vs 2 bullets, just makes you look like a clown.
Please, this is the oldest argument on the internet when it comes to realism games, i've heard it a million times now in a million different ways, and basicaly, it allways boils down to "games aren't really real, so you shoulden't even try to make them realistic".
It was BS the first time i heard it some time in 1998, when it was used as an argument for why Serpentine shoulden't use ironsights, because ironsights would never work or be fun in a game, and would never catch on (lulz!), and time has not sweetened the argument, only proven it increasingly wrong.
Sure there are limitations to this tech, an FPS game can't make you feel the weight of the weapon in your hand, because you are just pushing a mouse around, and it can't make you feel warm or cold, because PC's aren't aircon units, it can't make you feel wet if you go for a swim in the game, or let you feel the texture of a wall against your fingertips, it's an audio/visual experiance only, and one that is based on smoke and mirrors, it's all driven by code, not real phyical objects or forces.
But that hasen't stopped games from doing amazing things, and by no means should we stop trying to innovate and push the envelope of what the medium can do.
As for thease forums being somehow super "elitist", they aren't really, just filled with RO fans who like the game for what it is, and thus, when you come here and tell us that we're all wrong and stupid, because you know better, and that the game must be changed to fit your opinions because they are obviously the correct ones... yeah, it is quite natural that we will take offense to that, and tell you to STFU or GTFO.
And that is true of any forum, if i went to to the IL2 forums and started making threads about how it's upcomming sequal should remove stalling from the flightmodel, because games aren't really real, and it's not fun to stall, and removes skill from the game.. i would get flamed to a crisp!
If i went to the forums for Quake-Live, and started demanding that the game should have ironsight aiming and reloads, because the game just can't become as popular as CoD without it, i would get flamed to a bloody crisp!
And if i went to the PC section of the Battlefield forums, and started posting about how Dedicated servers should not be in BF3, because it's not as fun as matchmaking and a waste of the developers time, what would happen?
.. to a crisp!