well it's been a prob for a long while, yes I dunno why they dont play cod:uo but there you go-
to be fair plenty of people like to solo tank, and ppl have the right to play how they want, but it's their attitude that can be a problem (wanting to take the only panther/tiger for example is a bit much, as is taking the last tank at spawn)
But as long as people are polite I get out. If not i stay in my seat go afk and put the kettle on or something.
I just suggest when you find a few like minded co-operative tankers like i did who you get on with, regardless of their ability suggest adding them to friends so you can team up again. I think it's important to remember that a good attitude is more important than ability (which will naturally increase)
Everyone benifits, as a double act you have more influence on the tanks at spawn ( though likewise you should accept extra crew if required), your skills inprove, and you make friends in the community (great for those long drives in orel).