I've been here since KF. *points up* That's not as long as the really old RO hands, but long enough I feel like I can say something about how comments get interpreted here.
1. Rude feedback, even totally justified, gets you nowhere, with anyone. You don't walk into someone's house and piss on their carpet and expect not to get slapped for being a *****.
2. Exaggerated feedback isn't tolerated much better, even if it's structured or put in a 45 paragraph post.
3. Honest feedback, delivered calmly and not posted by reflex (ie. when there are 5 threads on the first page) gets read and allowed to stand.
4. You have to have a semi-thick skin around here. TWI moderators do not baby sit every comment.
5. TWI moderators DO have good memories. If you repeat the same complaint (whine, lulzy statement, troll, whatever) in every thread you can, they'll remember it and they'll moderate you accordingly. Simply put, if you're being a whiny ***** every time you post, even as you steadfastly claim to be a community member, you're going to get treated like a whiny *****.
It's not like this is even special to the TWI. This is just netiquette in general. The only real thing that stands out about the TWI forums is there is a fair amount of elitism here. On good days, it's done in good humor. Lately, since the roll up to release, it's becoming an annoying meme spewed by people who want to fit in.
True facts.
It works everywhere, if you want to complain about something and be heard, do it:
- In an educated manner. Raging/Sarcasm gets you nowhere.
- Concise, don't need to repeat the same thing many times on the same post.
- If you say something, try to back it with arguments. Yeah, you think thing x is a problem but you cant assume ppl know what you are implying if you dont argumentate.
- Don't DEMAND things, its rude.