I guess i dont get the few comments saying this thread is a waste, basically. If people want to vent their frustrations, or compare stories, or do WHATEVER respectfully...that's what a forum is for. Obviously it's Lenny's house...he has a LOT of servers. But regardless, he's a terrible host and the only reason people still play on his servers are b/c they dont know better, they have been slaved-up by him, or they want to F with him. Certainly not that they enjoy his presence. Anyways...I wont be joining his servers. If anyone has any good servers they enjoy playing on, would love a PM
Basically I find most servers out there are fine. Most admins are either players (not necessarily owners) that play regularly and therefore are light-touch all the way, unless someone is being a d*** or an a$$.
Best way for you to be happy with your games and server selection is to add players you like through steam and then join their games. This way through association with their steam "friends", you can be pretty confident that your games will be played without issue.
There are also many KF female players out there who can play the game to a high standard (and generally arent griefers) so you can be 99% sure adding those will get you to play on servers without the same issues youve been experiencing on TT's servers.
Ofc you could just try out the different servers by joining them and trying them out... which is what I did initiallly on lower levels.
Until one fateful day... when I joined the Very Games HoE server (defunct now I think).
On a Filths Cross map with 100% FF - I joined late as a Sharpie and skewered two teammates in the head, though not on purpose. One was being raged by an FP. The other was a supp. crouching firing his shotgun and his recoil made him jerk up from his lower position... so that his head actually rose to meet my bolt....
Got a blanket ban just from that server... even though I insisted it was an accident... so I basically blacklisted all their servers and never play on them again.