I don't get it, if they're starting the game without you, so what?.. Then it's obvious that they don't care if you are in the game or not. And then why would they wait for your computer to load the map?
They shouldn't get punished only because your comp/network is slow, that's obvious. Even if you are living somewhere in nowhere were the internet sucks, why should they get punished for that?
Get a new computer/network-speed or move somewhere were the network is good if it's so important for you.
OR actually play as nice as you can and help your friends as much as possible, then, they WILL care for you (If not, you shouldn't play with them).
They shouldn't get punished only because your comp/network is slow, that's obvious. Even if you are living somewhere in nowhere were the internet sucks, why should they get punished for that?
Get a new computer/network-speed or move somewhere were the network is good if it's so important for you.
OR actually play as nice as you can and help your friends as much as possible, then, they WILL care for you (If not, you shouldn't play with them).