I couldn't find any server IPs here in the forums.
I searched Google, and found one.
I did what you said, and it went to a black screen (press F10 to cancel, blah blah blah) as it should. But it didn't connect. I waited for about 12 minutes, and then canceled. I tried returning to the Main Menu with the "back" button, but it wouldn't let me, kept saying failed to connect. I shut it down with the task manager eventually.
I really want to play the Multiplayer... I bought the game about 10 month ago, and played in the Multiplayer all the time until I had problems with my internet connection and my ISP. The problem was fixed 2 weeks ago -_-, had to wait 5 month... And now I can't play my favorite game >.>
Any ideas?