No fear here my friend though there is an old saying my father taught me.... 'Better safe than sorry'
Well, why would anyone need protection against something he isn't afraid of? It is fear. You might not like it or conciously feel it, but still, it's primal fear that makes you do this.
I for one always fasten my seatbelt when I drive my car, because I am afraid of the consequences of a car crash. No shame in that. Fear is nothing to be ashamed of, it's the thing that keeps us alive. But it is important to know your fears so they don't rule you and make you do irrational things.
lol..Not sure if serious???? Where are you from again?...ah Austria...where there is no crime, no wannabe "GANGSTAS" and the criminals don't carry illegal guns.
We do have crime in austria, and we do have street crime. But due to people not being armed, robbers tend not to be that well armed, and they usually do not resort to violence. In fact, most robberies are of the "run past and grab the bag" kind or pickpocketings, so there's no need to be afraid of them hurting you generally. Of course there are exceptions, but there always are.
Wow... I guess you enjoy being a victim don't you. In america gangsta thugs will beat you, stab you, or shoot you without remorse and THEN take your wallet. I guess you would be ok with taking your beating though seeing how much you like being a victim.... or perhaps being stabbed or shot to death would also suffice
Now that came unexpected, and is kind of flawed. I am no victim, and have never been one, nor will any robber make me one. But, due to my philosophy I regard most criminals as victims of circumstances (allthough they can be self inflicted) that have put them in a situation wher crime is a viable action to take.
Being in social work and having had contact with criminals of various degress, I have not encountered a single one who actively chose being a criminal as a career by rational choice. ( I think those people rather work in the financial sector than holding up people. nets them much more omoney with less risk in less time)
Also, I do believe that rehabilitation is far more effective than punishment, and you cannot rehabilitate dead people.
Also, it kind of does prove my point that in a culture where people tend to be armed and thus a direct thread to the live of a robber (who, let's face it, must be desperate enough to risk his life for a little change), robbers preventativley hurt you.
I don't even know how to respond to your liberal mindset. There really is no point in responding as you come from a completely opposite upbringing and culture. I do recognize (once again) that you are ok with being a victim though.
I will die fighting to protect myself and children before being victimized.
Again "victim" is the main word. Again, you are afraid of something, and that is losing control. So, I deduct from that that it isn't actually about safety, but about empowerment. You need a gun to feel empowered. That's okay with me. I for one feel powerful enough without one.
And about the "die fighting" thing. Yeah, sounds heroic. But two things: firstly most people tend not to be heroic when the **** really hits the fan because fear takes over, and secondly dying while trying to achive something is usually quite ineffective, because as soon as you're dead, the ones you tried to protect are on their own. I'd rather prefer solutions where everyone involved walks away unharmed, as opposed to one or more people being seariously hurt or dead. especially if it's over petty things like the cash you carry with you.
Also, if you fear being victimized, a gun won't help you. You're still a victim of a robbery, even if you shot the perp dead and kept all your belongings. the only difference is that one person is dead, and that death is on your concious. If it weren't, you'd be a cold blooded sociopath and a real danger to other people.
I think taht psychologically, it's easier to get over losing some belongings than to get over having killed another person.
So if your home was invaded by a thug who held you at gun point and proceeded to rape your daughter in front of you would do what exactly to solve the issue at hand?...perhaps politely talk him out of it?? maybe stand ideally by and hope the police show up soon??..... or would you defend your family and shoot him dead beforehand as you are awakened to the sound of your front door being kicked in.
Now, I really like to know how many home invasions with the intent to rape somebody while EVERYBODY ELSE IS AT HOME really take place. Again, it's something you're afraid of, and that's okay. BUt I doubt it's a likely scenario. Honestly, your daughter is more likely to get raped by you, close relatives or friends (not personally, it's just that sexual abuse is statistically much more prevalent than rape bewteen strangers). Secondly, other rapes occur outside, in dark, secluded areas on victims who are alone, and NOT in homes.
Also, as long as there's a single assaulter, he cannot hold you at gunpoint and rape someone at the same time.
Also, "home invaders", or rather, people who break in tend to be more intelligent here than overseas, it seems. They usually scout an area and break in, only armed with the tools to bypass the doors, when noone's at home. If they do surprise somebody who's still home, they usually bolt, because a tried break in is much less of a hassle to manage than a robbery with assault or murder.
A hypothetical situation?? The sad fact is these things occur almost daily in the good ol' USA. You have no choice of firearms for personal defense where you live. I do have a choice though and I choose the greatest defense available against the filth of the earth.
Again, I'd like to see actual statisitics. Usually the "happens every day" rethoric is used on gullible people to push politics.
And you do always have choices. For one, you could use proper building materials instead of plywood, so the entry to your home wasn't as easy. Here in Austria, most robbers tend to bugger off when they need more than
5 minutes to break in, because the longer they try, the more likely they are to get caught red handed.
So sturdy walls and doors would make you a lot more safe than a gun that could accidentally kill someone you love.
And as a disclaimer: I am not against guns or personal ownership of guns. I do get that the feeling of empowerement is great and that shooting a gun is fun.
What I do not like is people having guns who need them as a psychological crutch not to succumb to fear, because it's a bad crutch, and when the fear takes over, people get killed.