Sounds like Factor VIII would be a perfect fit. Our average age is 35, with many of us in our 40's, just turned 47 myself.
We are a multi-gaming guild with a very active, but casual group of RO:O players that have been with the game since v1.0 of the mod.
As we are an older group of players, real life and family always comes first, we get on teamspeak and ingame as often as we can; many of us every night, blow some chit up, and generaly have a great time.
Skill level is not a consideration, we're here to have fun, promote fair play and respect towards other players.
We rent and run our own servers and admin them with a strict, but fair set of rules. No foul langauge (in game chat) no racial/religious or sexual slurs, etc, etc.
Add me to your Xfire list (kyril) if you'd like to talk, or check us out at at the link below, our Dallas Texas based server IP is also listed.